A Nigerian Civil Engineer, consultant, and philanthropist, Abubakar Sanusi who the CEO of Sanusi Construction Group and The Sanusi Foundation has shared his love story via his Twitter account @abubakarsanusi_ about how he finally found love after 14 failed relationship with a mother of one who is 19 years older than him
He also advised young Nigerian men to look outside their comfort zones whenever they need to find love and emulate his ‘thinking outside the box.’
A guy of 25 years old, in love with a 35 year old divorcee, not much of a beauty but hard working, isn't that what guys should be exploring? instead of chasing teenage/early 20 year old beautiful girls who just care about the luxury and not true love. @instablog9ja @9jaTweets
— Mr. Abubakar Sanusi (@MAbubakarSanusi) October 30, 2018
I had exactly 14 relationships, and rich girls, middle class girls, beautiful, ugly, yorubas, igbos, edos, hausas and fulanis, but all of my age rate. And the longest relationship was a year and a half and shortest was 3 weeks. @instablog9ja @GossipMillTV
— Mr. Abubakar Sanusi (@MAbubakarSanusi) October 30, 2018
But now, to all my crushers, and friends and family, I have been dating a lady over 4 months now and for the first time #IFoundLove to a baby mama, 19 years older than me, not from a wealthy background but better than any girl i ever come across @instablog9ja
— Mr. Abubakar Sanusi (@MAbubakarSanusi) October 30, 2018
He wrote:
“A guy of 25 years old, in love with a 35-year-old divorcee, not much of a beauty but hard working, isn’t that what guys should be exploring? Instead of chasing teenage/early 20-year-old beautiful girls who just care about the luxury and not true love.
“I had exactly 14 relationships, and rich girls, middle-class girls, beautiful, ugly, Yoruba, Igbo, Edo, Hausa and Fulani, but all of my age rate. And the longest relationship was a year and a half and the shortest was 3 weeks.
“But now, to all my crushers, and friends and family, I have been dating a lady over 4 months now and for the first time #IFoundLove to a baby mama, 19 years older than me, not from a wealthy background but better than any girl I ever come across.”
Maybe not everyone will find love in the orthodox ways, and Sanusi should be proud of what he’s achieved. We all want to fall I love, but most importantly, be loved back because one-sided love stories are like no love. When you’re the only one emotionally invested in any relationship, you will end up getting hurt.
