Nigerian relationship expert, Solomon Buchi has taken to social media to share some valuable wisdom to all soon-to-be-married couples.
In a post shared on his Twitter page, Solomon Buchi highlighted ten points on the sacrifices and considerations that men may need to embrace as they embark on their marital journey.
One of his points revolves around the idea that in marriage, women are “never wrong” and they “hardly forgive”. He also encouraged men to be open to their partners’ perspectives.
He wrote: “Marriage will teach you that:
1) You’ll forgive your wife in two seconds, but she’ll need 3-5 working days to process your forgiveness.
2) When your wife gives a shopping suggestion or recommends something to buy, you just agree. Do same and you’ll have to example to her why y’all need it, if the price is justifiable, etc
3) Women are never wrong. Just apologize and have a happy home.
4) If your wife causes you guys to go out late, it’s okay. Be the cause of lateness, hell will rise
5) When your wife is stressed, your presence annoys her. Don’t disappear either, just… I-honestly-don’t-know
6) Allowing your wife take out the trash means you’re a bad husband. But if she allows you cook and clean, she’s responsible
7) Women will ask you to bathe first, so they’ll have time to sleep more. If you don’t bathe first, the day’s lateness will be blamed on you.
8) Your double bed is 80% your wife’s and 20% yours, so it’s okay to fall off and sleep on the floor. Wives always own the larger portion of the bed.
9) As a man, when you’re pooing is one of the best times you can use as quiet-time away from the trouble you married.
10) You may be the head of the home, but many times you’ll feel like her errand boy. The day you stop running errands, trouble sets in.”
https://twitter.com/Solomon_Buchi/status/1700438706140618994?s=20
KanyiDaily recalls that Solomon Buchi recently advised men who believe he’s a simp to go cry in their “alpha make coven,” as he raved over his wife, Adeola.
