Self-proclaimed relationship therapist, Blessing CEO has shared her perspectives on the importance of financial support in romantic relationships.
During a recent discussion on Pulse TV, the controversial therapist engaged in a lively conversation with three other participants.
Blessing CEO highlighted the traditional role of men in society, emphasizing their primary responsibility to provide and shoulder various obligations.
Drawing a distinct line between boys and men, she argued that a romantic relationship lacking financial stability is prone to frustration.
She encouraged men to date within their financial capacity, stressing that doing so facilitates smoother provision for their partners.
“There is a difference between boys and men. The boys are the ones parading everywhere looking for where to enter, while men are those who are willing to carry responsibilities.
“The biggest problem is that a lot of young girls don’t know how to differentiate the both of them. Romance without finance leads to annoyance. Once there’s no provision, let’s be honest, what’s the essence of the relationship?
“The ability to provide is the only quality I look for in a man, not his feelings for me. What am I going to do with his feelings?” she said.
Blessing emphasized the significance of aligning financial capacities, making it easier for both parties to contribute to the growth and stability of the relationship.
The relationship therapist boldly claimed that women often bear more financial responsibilities than men, particularly in traditional African households.
While acknowledging the capability of many women to provide for themselves, She cautioned against them excessively shouldering the financial burden.
According to her, when women take on an overwhelming amount of financial responsibility, men may become complacent and less motivated to fulfill their traditional roles as providers.
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KanyiDaily recalls that Blessing CEO recently claimed that a woman’s primary role is to enjoy a man’s money, while men are inherently designed to be the providers in relationships.