Dele Momodu, the Publisher of Ovation magazine, has reacted to the custody battle between his niece, Sophia Momodu, and Afrobeats star Davido, over their daughter, Imade Adeleke.
In a post shared on his X page, Momodu expressed surprise at Davido’s recent affidavit seeking joint custody of their child.
The media mogul said that their previous conversations had focused on Davido’s traditional wedding and reconnecting with his daughter, not custody issues.
Dele Momodu revealed that Davido and his family had always had access to the child, and when school fees weren’t paid, he intervened with Davido’s father, Deji Adeleke, who resolved the issue and even provided a car for the child.
He wrote, “My candid opinion on David Adeleke vs Sophia Momodu
“Last night, I received a distressing message from Mr David Adeleke (aka Davido). He was obviously devastated by the counter-affidavit submitted in court, earlier in the day, in response to his affidavit seeking a joint custody of his daughter with my niece Sophia Momodu.
“I had seen David’s affidavit about two weeks ago, and I was very surprised as David, and I had spoken on a video call days earlier, with him and Pastor Tobi Adegboyega, and he never told me he had any custody issues with my niece. So you can imagine my confusion to find out via social media and subsequently confirmed by my niece that he had filed an action in court seeking joint custody of their daughter.
“During the referenced video call, we were all very excited about his forthcoming wedding ceremony, an event our family congratulated him on. Prior to this, David had told me he eventually spoke to their daughter, after a long lull of about two years.
“He was very happy and excited. So I thought everything was settled, and he and Sophia would now have the opportunity to take maximum care of their daughter. I had offered special thanks to David’s Dad, Dr Adedeji Adeleke, for his kindness and support for our daughter during the period of David’s absence.
“I had also taken Sophia and their daughter to my very dear friend, Governor Ademola Adeleke, seeking his intervention. To the best of my knowledge, there was never a problem of joint custody.”
Momodu clarified that the main issues between Sophia and Davido revolved around financial support, including school fees, accommodation, and a nanny’s salary.
He explained that Sophia had proposed Davido pay half of the accommodation costs, but Davido offered a smaller amount annually instead.
Momodu wrote, “The issues were: non-payment of school fees for several sessions; non-payment of accommodation and salaries of a nanny. There was no car dedicated to David’s daughter. And so on. Mercifully, I mentioned all to Dr Adedeji Adeleke and he responded positively, like a true grandfather.
“On the issue of non-payment of school fees, David’s Dad cleared everything and also set up payments of future bills. He gave his granddaughter a car to take her to school. The remaining issue was accommodation.
“David’s Dad verbally offered, in his discussions with me, one of their family apartments in Oniru Estate, Victoria Island, however, maybe due to miscommunication, David’s lawyers had communicated otherwise.
“After Sophia clarified with me, she politely declined the offer, and her reason was tenable in my view, because, since she’s not married to David, she can’t be comfortable living in a place swarming with David’s family members.
“She and her daughter had been living in Ikoyi before David and Sophia started their latest quarrels. Sophia’s request was that David should pay half of the accommodation while she would pay the other half. David said he could only contribute N5million annually.”
Regarding custody, Momodu emphasized that Sophia allowed Davido access to their daughter, provided her nanny was present.
The media mogul mentioned instances where their daughter interacted with Davido’s extended family, despite occasional scheduling challenges.
He said, “My opinion is that the absence of camaraderie between David and Sophia has caused this debacle. I have cautioned repeatedly that their daughter must not be allowed to suffer or be treated like a second-class child. David’s global status makes this imperative.
“Sophia allowed David access to their daughter, provided she has her nanny around 24/7. The 9-year-old herself made this request and I believe this should be favourably considered and accepted. My grand-niece had been released to go out with her cousins on several occasions.
“The Governor’s daughter, Nike, was at Sophia’s house with the Governor’s grandson last Christmas Day, despite the fact that there wasn’t ample notice & she was still granted access.
“Two months ago, the Governor’s son, Sina Rambo, requested a play date between the kids & Sophia rented out a children’s place in Victoria Island for them to spend hours together.
“The only time she couldn’t join her father’s family was when her grandfather requested to go on vacation with her for three weeks last year, as the notice was too short, and Sophia had already paid for their own trips, due to a lack of communication between the parents.”
Momodu urged both parties to prioritize their daughter’s well-being, avoid media rhetoric, and engage constructively in the court’s alternative dispute resolution process.
He emphasized Sophia’s commitment to protecting their daughter and creating a stable environment for father-daughter interactions, calling for a resolution that minimizes further trauma for all involved.
“The court yesterday referred the case for possible settlement by the alternative dispute resolution (ADR) section of the court during Settlement Week, and I strongly advise that David (and Sophia) engage truly with the process as opposed to making harmful and irreversible statements on social media which not only violate the law but the interest of their child.
“I have, in the past 9 years, tried my best to ensure amicable resolution of disputes and encouraged both parents to have a proper structure put in place for the welfare of their daughter.
“It is important to note that Sophia did not instigate this court action and is only seeking to protect their daughter and ensure that there is a structured, safe and sustainable manner in which father and child can engage with each other.
“The vitriolic rhetoric in the media should be avoided by all means, as this only further inflames what is already a traumatic experience for all parties involved, especially the child in question,” he said.
MY CANDID OPINION ON DAVID ADELEKE vs SOPHIA MOMODU
By DELE MOMODU
Last night, I received a distressing message from Mr David Adeleke (aka Davido). He was obviously devastated by the counter-affidavit submitted in court, earlier in the day, in response to his affidavit seeking… pic.twitter.com/6PaonvALqM
— Dele Momodu Ovation (@DeleMomodu) July 6, 2024
KanyiDaily recalls that Dele Momodu had previously urged Sophia Momodu to “calm down” after she called out Davido, for abandoning their daughter, Imade Adeleke.