Nollywood actress, Toyin Adegbola, popularly known as Toyin Tomato, has advised women not to leave their marriages, no matter how difficult or problematic their husbands may be.
During a live session, Toyin Tomato argued that if women leave her marriage, it could lead to regret in the future when important family events arise, as husbands may insist on their presence.
The actress, who spoke in Yoruba, also suggested that women who leave their husbands might struggle to find another man.
She encouraged women to stay and try to work things out, sharing an example of a friend who gives her husband condoms to protect herself when he’s unfaithful.
Toyin also advised men to treat their wives like their firstborns, as women often do with their husbands.
The actress emphasized that men can be easily deceived by women, only seeing what women allow them to.
She said, ‘’I have always told women that no matter how ‘m@d’ your husband is, never think of sending him out nor you packing out of your matrimonial home because it will end in a begging spree when your kids want to do something important in future. That is when he will start saying ‘My wife must be there, my wife must be there’ and then you will also not see a single man that will want you. Wherever you are thinking of going, you are also going there to go and cheat on somebody else too.
“Sit in your marital home and be begging him. Be protecting yourself too. I have a friend who whenever her husband is coming into Nigeria, she will hand him a pack of condoms. The man will now call me and be like ‘’Yeye, see what your friend gave to me ooo! Me I will not use it oo! It is who she wants to put in trouble she is looking for. Love smart!
“Men should see their wives as their firstborns as women have always seen husbands as their firstborns. No matter how a man thinks he is smart, he will still be foolish with women. It is what we want you to see that you will see. Between us and our children, it is what we want you to know that you will know.”
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KanyiDaily had reported how Toyin Tomato was caught on camera making a scene at a Shoprite Mall in Ibadan, Oyo State.